Don't Confuse Your Kids

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Is it okay for my ex-spouse to stay in my home while I am gone?

Don't Confuse Your Kids

Be careful if you are tempted to use your ex-spouse as your babysitter in your home while you are gone, whether for just a few hours, or while you are out of town for several days. This can cause confusion for your children. If for some reason your ex-spouse needs to stay in your home during your absence, make sure that you explain to your children that mommy or daddy is only going to be staying there to take care of them while you are gone. Be honest with them, do not leave any room for them to fantasize or dream about a reconciliation, if that is not possible. If you feel uncomfortable with leaving your ex-spouse at your home while you are away, then suggest that he/she and the kids may be more comfortable staying somewhere else such as his/her parents' home, relatives, or even a motel.

   

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