Marry for Love Not Convenience

Do not marry someone simply because they will make a good mother or father for your children, and your children like them. By the same token, do not marry someone who is not interested in being a parent to your children. Marry because you love someone and you want to spend the rest of your life together, someone who loves your children as much as you do. Do not settle for anything less. And do not allow your children to choose for you. If things do not work out, they could very well end up thinking it is their fault as many children tend to blame themselves for their parents divorce. That is too much responsibility to put on their young shoulders. Its okay to get their input on who they like or dislike, but the choice should be yours.