May 22, 2009, Newsletter Issue #334: Why would I need a support group when I am raising my grandchildren?

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Why the need for support groups? Studies have produced evidence connecting significant stress levels to the role of primary care giving. These stresses are brought on by such factors as financial and health concerns, the feeling of social isolation from peer groups, resentment over the loss of a desired lifestyle, the surrender of a job or pastime / hobby, or the feeling that time alone is no longer attainable. Sometimes, these issues require the help of professionals to be able to effectively cope.

The grandchild(ren) themselves have issues that need to be contended with as well. It is important to try to explain the reasons for the change in the living situation to the grandchildren and to do it as politely as possible. "Bad-mouthing" the parents will ultimately harm the grandchild(ren). If the parent has died, gone away, or been abusive or neglectful, the grandchild(ren) will most likely harbor feelings of sadness and anger. It is important that the grandchild(ren) understand that these emotions are both natural and healthy. If at all possible, allowing the child(ren) to spend time with the parents in a SAFE and HEALTHY environment is always encouraged. For the most part, professional counseling for the child(ren) is a very effective and in some instances necessary way to address many of these and other emotional issues.

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